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It's an honour to be with you as you feel, heal and grow.
I offer unconditional, non-judgmental compassionate care.
Let's build on what works for you.
I believe and trust you.
Give your children the gift of watching you care for yourself, change and grow.
I want to know what it's like to be you right now.
Let's heal the source of your emotional pain.
I provide a safe place for you to find your way.
When you love and accept yourself as you are, you can then care for yourself more.
The summary of almost every self help books is to unconditionally love, accept, forgive and trust yourself.
Often it's our most valued beliefs that give us the most trouble.
Family can be both the most important and the most damaging part of our lives.
The only thing that's consistent about life is the inconsistency.
It's not anger management, it's hurt and pain management.
Addictions are a tool to manage emotional pain.
Depression can be your mind and body insisting on a rest from the stress of being you.
Anxiety can be a built-in fear of that dreadful experience happening again.
Your body remembers the trauma.
The "what if's" can be too much to bear after a loved one suicides.
Everyone is doing their best with what they know in the moment.
Being vulnerable takes great strength.
Asking for help takes great courage.
A breakdown is so often a breakthrough.
If it takes 10 000 tears to grieve, let's get started.
Let's work together to create a gap between the event and the reaction.
Is it possible to forgive the unforgivable?
Talking to a good listener is a powerful medicine.
Grief has no timeline.
Practicing self-awareness lowers the intensity and frequency of emotional pain.
It's OK to make a decision to not make a decision yet.
Two steps forward and one step back is still forward.
Thinking you are an imposter sometimes is normal.
You are not alone.
You are perfectly imperfect.
We are often attracted to people with traits like our parents or other influential adults from our formative years.
It can be exhausting trying to have our unmet childhood needs fulfilled by others.
It might be time to put you first.
Your suffering lowers when lowering other people’s suffering.
Wanting to punish others punishes you.
Keeping your goals to yourself helps you achieve them.
Music soothes your negativity.
Your past doesn’t have to determine your future.
Being alone and loving yourself is often required.
Feel your loss to reduce it.
It’s all about love.
What you focus on grows, both good and bad.
Love the fear.
Mistakes are integral to success.
Today is the first day of the rest of your life.
Having a personal space in your home is important.
Communication is No.1 to successful relationships.
Love brought you here and will greet you when you leave.
You are worth trusting.
Smiling is more attractive than makeup.

THERAPIES

If you or someone you care about is experiencing one or more of these issues, please consider getting in touch. Also see below the range of therapy styles I utilise to support clients. Together we will learn what styles work best for you to achieve your goals.

Issues

LONELINESS
DEPRESSION
ANXIETY
ANGER MANAGEMENT
ADDICTIONS
LOSS & GRIEF
CRISIS
TRAUMA
RELATIONSHIP MANAGEMENT
SUICIDAL THOUGHTS
RELATIONSHIP BREAKDOWN
SUICIDE BEREAVEMENT

Therapy Styles

Rogerian

Rogerian therapy, created by Carl Rogers, is a therapeutic technique in which the client takes an active, autonomous role in therapy sessions. It is based on the idea that the client knows what is best, and that the therapist's role is to facilitate an environment in which the client can bring about positive change.

Client Centred

Client centred therapy, or person centred therapy, is a non-directive approach to talk therapy. It requires the client to actively take the reins during each therapy session, while the therapist acts mainly as a guide or a source of support for the client. “Person centred therapy allows the client to steer the ship.

Cognitive Behavioural (CBT)

Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) is a form of psychological treatment that has been demonstrated to be effective for a range of problems including depression, anxiety disorders, alcohol and drug use problems, marital problems, eating disorders, and severe mental illness. Numerous research studies suggest that CBT leads to significant improvement in functioning and quality of life. In many studies, CBT has been demonstrated to be as effective as, or more effective than, other forms of psychological therapy or psychiatric medications.

Emotionally Focused (EFT)

Emotion-focused therapy (EFT) is a therapeutic approach based on the premise that emotions are key to identity. According to EFT, emotions are also a guide for individual choice and decision making. This type of therapy assumes that lacking emotional awareness or avoiding unpleasant emotions can cause harm.

Solution Focused (SFT)

Solution-focused therapy (SFT) is a goal-directed collaborative approach to psychotherapeutic change that is conducted through direct observation of clients' responses to a series of precisely constructed questions. It focuses on addressing what clients want to achieve without exploring the history and provenance of problem(s). Sessions typically focus on the present and future, focusing on the past only to the degree necessary for communicating empathy and accurate understanding of the client's concerns.

Narrative

Narrative therapy is a form of therapy that aims to separate the individual from the problem, allowing the individual to externalise their issues rather than internalise them. It relies on the individual's own skills and sense of purpose to guide them through difficult times.

Interpersonal (IPT)

Interpersonal psychotherapy (IPT) is a time-limited, focused, evidence-based approach to treat mood disorders. The main goal of IPT is to improve the quality of a client’s interpersonal relationships and social functioning to help reduce their distress. First, it addresses interpersonal deficits, including social isolation or involvement in unfulfilling relationships. Second, it can help patients manage unresolved grief—if the onset of distress is linked to the death of a loved one, either recent or past. Third, it can help with difficult life transitions like retirement, divorce, or moving to another city. Fourth, is recommended for dealing with interpersonal disputes that emerge from conflicting expectations between partners, family members, close friends, or coworkers.

Mindfulness

Mindfulness is awareness, without judgment, of life as it is, yourself as you are, other people as they are, in the here and now, via direct and immediate experience. When you are mindful, you are awake to life on its terms – fully alive to each moment as it arrives, as it is, and as it ends.

Gestalt

Gestalt therapy is an approach to psychotherapy that helps clients focus on the present and understand what is actually happening in their lives at this moment, rather than what they may perceive to be happening based on past experience. Along with person-centred and existential therapy, it is one of the primary forms of humanistic therapy. It is based on the principle that people are best thought of as whole entities consisting of body, mind, and soul, and best understood when viewed through their own eyes.
Instead of simply talking about past situations, clients in gestalt therapy are encouraged to experience them, perhaps through re-enactment, role-playing activities, or artistic exercises like drawing and painting. In this way, clients can learn to become more aware of how negative thought patterns and behaviours may be blocking self-awareness and making them unhappy.